Slimmy Jeans

My waist measurement is 34-35" so based on the sizing chart I got a 33, but it's on the loose side and seems like I should have got a size 32 instead. The length is also on the long side, I'm 6' and think they are 1. 5 to 2" too long which is a bother walking around in without cuffing the jeans. The thing that bothers me the most is the fly. My pair is mid rise, 10. 5" I believe but the fly is oddly short in length relative to other jeans/pants one can tell the difference right away going to the bathroom. I actually had to check whether I had bought a women's version. It's a dampener on function. I just washed the jeans after a few wears and haven't put it on again just yet to see if it got looser.